My growing understanding of what it means to be sensitive to magnetic polarity in the body and to the exchange of energy between these polarities is bringing a greater enjoyment of this flow – both to my own life and in my sessions with clients. Although it may sound like a mad idea to some, or at least an unlikely concept – the reality is that if you give it a try and you play around with it or simply step into it, it surprises you with how easy it is to feel.

I include this excellent article which explains the idea and I’m grateful to Martina from Tantric Blossoming:

As men and women reconnect with their true selves, the masculine and feminine energy realigns in the body through the polarities. When realigned, women feel more receptive and magnetic in their being, creating space for surrender and opening to men in a more natural way and men experience an increase in their masculine potency and come to trust their ability to initiate energy and bring clarity to a woman.

Masculine / feminine energyConventional sexual practices overlook the importance of the polarity between men and women. This creates a situation where many women have tension in their vagina, unable to fully receive a man’s energy from his penis and the man is often disconnected or overwhelmed by the energy in his penis unable to fully utilise the energy there to open a woman. Also the importance of the heart in completing the cycle of sexual energy is largely overlooked.

A woman’s positive pole is her heart and her negative pole is the vagina, for a man his positive pole is his penis and his negative pole is his heart. When a man and woman connect energetically, the man initiates the woman with the energy from his positive pole, the penis and this energy is received by her negative, or receptive pole, the vagina. This energy flows through the woman’s body towards her heart, which is her positive polarity, so that when a woman is connected to her heart and breasts, she is then able to penetrate the man’s heart, his negative polarity, with her heart energy.

Engaging in sexual activity where you connect energetically through the natural polarities leaves you and your lover feeling nourished, nurtured and fulfilled which creates a sense of peace, joy and gratitude that permeates the daily routine of your life.