There are great differences between the energies of masculine and feminine – they’re polar opposites of each other. We read our world through the filters of what we’re most accustomed to in terms of these energies. We live in a pretty masculine culture which doesn’t allow men much scope to access the feminine, either within or without. Women are left feeling misunderstood and in denial of their true feminine and confused about what to expect from the masculine. This may sound foreign to some of you but I’m happy to explain more if you’d like to understand it.

I’ve been reading the writings of a woman by the name of Jaiya, who calls herself a somatic sex educator. The following is a conversation she says had with her own “inner masculine and feminine”, but it reflects what could happen if we could talk to each other about what we feel and want:

Feminine: Stop hurting me, stop betraying me, stop violating me. I am so angry at you for not protecting me. I am so angry at you for not honoring me. I am so angry at you for your lack of devotion.

Masculine: I feel that you are always trying to control me. I’m very afraid of your anger. I’m also afraid of your love. I don’t know what to do. Please tell me what you need.

Feminine: I need you to support me. I need you to protect me from harm. I need you to be devoted to me. I need you to serve me. I need you to release your fear and love me with your whole heart.

Masculine: I am uncomfortable with devotion. I do not know how to give up my own need for control and power. I want so much to love you, hold you and devote myself to you. But I am afraid that I will lose myself in the merging.

Feminine: How can I help you to find devotion? How can I help you to be fully in your masculine and overcome your fears? What do you need from me?

Masculine: I need you to set me free. I need you to show me devotion. Devote yourself to me, devote yourself to you. Be in your power. I too need to feel safe. Sometimes I feel so threatened by you. Please don’t threaten me, show me devotion and freedom.

Feminine: Thank you. I can show you deep and intense devotion. I can be in service to you in your divinity, but all masculine ego must drop. I am devoted to the divine masculine.

What does freedom mean to you?

Masculine: I need to feel that you are not trying to control me in any way. I need to feel able to take the reigns and drive. How can I protect and serve you when you won’t let me?

Feminine: I am afraid that if I give you freedom you will abandon me again. You will run away from me. You will only serve yourself.

Masculine: I need your help. I need you to show me, I need you to allow me to make mistakes and to be gentle with me.

Feminine: I will do everything in my power to help you. I gift you with freedom and I will help you when I feel abandoned. I will be gentle.

Masculine: I love you. Thank you for this communication. I am excited about learning and working with you.

Feminine: I love you too. Thank you for your devotion. I devote myself to you with my entire being.

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