I sometimes work with people around the differences between men and women and why it can be so difficult for each to understand the other gender. Particularly when it comes to sexuality, there seem to be vast differences. Men are very keen to understand and know women and what makes them tick. Unfortunately our society tends to squash the true feminine essence and women have learnt to cope in a fairly masculine environment where striving and seeking success, is the order of the day. The mental world is substituted for heart. Sadly, women loose touch with their inner core and build walls around their hearts in order to protect themselves.

Men feel a yearning to connect with the feminine essence. There is a cultural imbalance which doesn’t allow them to express or even feel their inner feminine. (By feminine I mean the softness and flow of surrender to what is and to the heart, not to wearing dresses or high heels!) They also don’t often encounter women who bring them access to the deepest richness of the true feminine. They’re left seeking sexual experiences that might somehow give them little glimpses or tastes of it. Women pick up on this hunger and if they themselves aren’t open to sharing their feminine essence, the male hunger can seem overwhelming or intrusive or demanding. This causes them to close even further. Many broken relationships or unfulfilling sexual encounters are a result of this picture.

Through the restoration of heart-centred loving, we rediscover the true feminine – both men and women. A lot of what I offer through my sessions, revolves around this discovery.

I was just enjoying an article I read somewhere, that highlighted these thoughts for me:

In the beginning there was the void, and in this pregnant space of nothingness, everything began to appear, and the witness sat in wonder and awe at the beauty of everythingness.

Everything that you can see, feel, experience apart from the witness is feminine, even your mind is feminine – isn’t it always changing?

The pregnant void yearned and needed… it wanted to see itself, and in a moment of separation it became two.

In order to enjoy the play of two with understanding…opposites were created – the masculine and the feminine.

And every single person is a unique mixture of these opposites – masculine and feminine. And we have to spend our entire lives coming back to oneness with ourselves or with another.

The masculine in each of us – is the ‘witness’ and our stillness; the part of you that has always been the same; if you like, the thing that looks through your eyes but will never be able to see yourself.

The feminine in each of us – ‘is absolutely everything else’.

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