Here’s a link to a piece of writing that I throughly enjoy. It has so much to do with what I help people access through my sessions.

Happiness is an outcome many of us look for from our intimate relationships. But the kind of happiness we tend to get, is based on a momentary high and is not the same as the deep inner happiness of being in touch with our essential self. So tantric sex is, in a sense, all about accessing a state where you use the body to feel deeply into the part of you that is not your mind or your body. It takes a huge load off your mind. It’s a very peaceful and loving state of being. And it’s hard to describe – best to be felt and experienced. See if this piece gives you some hunger for it:

Happiness is our essential being

Happiness lies deep within us, in the very core of our being. Happiness does not exist in any external object, but only in us, who are the consciousness that experiences happiness. Though we seem to derive happiness from external objects or experiences, the happiness that we thus enjoy in fact arises from within us.

Whatever turmoil our mind may be in, in the centre of our being there always exists a state of perfect peace and joy, like the calm in the eye of a storm. Desire and fear agitate our mind, and obscure from its vision the happiness that always exists within it. When a desire is satisfied, or the cause of a fear is removed, the surface agitation of our mind subsides, and in that temporary calm our mind enjoys a taste of its own innate happiness.

Happiness is thus a state of being – a state in which our mind’s habitual agitation is calmed. The activity of our mind disturbs it from its calm state of just being, and causes it to lose sight of its own innermost happiness. To enjoy happiness, therefore, all our mind need do is to cease all activity, returning calmly to its natural state of inactive being, as it does daily in deep sleep.

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