One of the unfortunate myths surrounding sacred touch (or Tantra as it’s commonly spoken about in modern society,) is that to be “successful” at it, you need to burn incense or ring bells or meditate for hours. Even the definition for success would be something along the lines of “making love for hours and delaying your orgasm till who knows when …” These ideas would probably intimidate or discourage the average, curious onlooker.The truth is that while learning certain ways of doing things, will enhance your experience and certainly adds value for the more earnest seeker plea on the path of Tantra, this doesn’t mean that those with little enthusiasm for such things cannot enjoy a much wider scope of experiencing pleasure through touch.

There are a number of very simple keys that can unlock a feast of new experiences. Examples of these would be breathing much more deeply (to open and relax the body); learning to feel simple energy through touch; finding ways to talk very openly and honestly; beginning to find your OWN pleasure in touch rather than focusing on pleasing the other person; learning to love stillness; getting used to making a noise when you’re happy (noise = sighs, squeals, murmurs and even deep-throated roars!)

Don’t limit your potential. This is most definitely a way of “doing sex” that you can learn and follow.